We all know that in the past, women were only seen as mere "objects." We all know that once teenagers hit puberty, it is the males that become more muscular, hence, more powerful. This leads to men becoming more dominate [of course, there are other factors, but this isn't an essay question, so I will not list them.]
But have you ever thought that women were the ones nature set to be more 'dominate'? As we can see, it is a QUEEN bee that rules over her colony, it is also a QUEEN ant that rules over her colony. In many animal colonies, the females dominate... so, are humans meant to be like that as well?
This needs to be expanded, but I am not bothered.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Monday, January 18, 2010
What you give me, is what you get back.
I do not tell my 'other friends' my so called problems in the first place, is because, I never have any to begin with. The only reason to why you are the one that I always 'bother' with my so called problems is because you start them in the first place. Sure, before we became what we are now, I made the following predictions:
1) We'll have some sorta 'major fight' -clashes, is more like it.
2) I'm questioning how high your 'endurance level' towards me is.
3) You will somehow leave, to put it in typical teenage words, "drift apart."
You believed those predictions, and took them to heart, without realizing that what you blame me for today, all relate to those predictions I made earlier. But there was one thing I missed out on, and that was the fact that you're the problematic child. Not me.
According to you, my predictions above came true because of what I do, because I'm selfish, you twisted all those 'problems' and directed them at me, telling me that "you started it all." I did not. YOU DID. YOU turned everything that was meant to be 'ok' into a HUGE. MASSIVE. PROBLEM. That "must get fixed," you acted like everything was my fault because I have 'personality problems.' Not everything is MY fault, and, I have done nothing to you that is worth you 'forgiving,' don't think of yourself in such a 'nice' way. You made me do what you thought you 'forgave.'
Theres nothing wrong with me, I'm simply anti-social, which means I have a hard time getting along with people. On the other hand, theres something wrong with you. Your problem is that you MAKE EVERYTHING seem like a problem, and it seeps into me, therefore, every time I complain about a so called problem to YOU and no one else, it's probably because YOU'RE the one who started it. So really, the problems you gave me, is what I'm giving you back.
and by the way, I hate admitting when my feelings get somewhat 'hurt.' Thats why, sometimes, I blow out on you and talking in my 'ungettable language,' which is another way of saying, I use a whole heap of examples and metaphors as a different way to tell you that my 'feelings' got hurt. You probably offended me in some way.
1) We'll have some sorta 'major fight' -clashes, is more like it.
2) I'm questioning how high your 'endurance level' towards me is.
3) You will somehow leave, to put it in typical teenage words, "drift apart."
You believed those predictions, and took them to heart, without realizing that what you blame me for today, all relate to those predictions I made earlier. But there was one thing I missed out on, and that was the fact that you're the problematic child. Not me.
According to you, my predictions above came true because of what I do, because I'm selfish, you twisted all those 'problems' and directed them at me, telling me that "you started it all." I did not. YOU DID. YOU turned everything that was meant to be 'ok' into a HUGE. MASSIVE. PROBLEM. That "must get fixed," you acted like everything was my fault because I have 'personality problems.' Not everything is MY fault, and, I have done nothing to you that is worth you 'forgiving,' don't think of yourself in such a 'nice' way. You made me do what you thought you 'forgave.'
Theres nothing wrong with me, I'm simply anti-social, which means I have a hard time getting along with people. On the other hand, theres something wrong with you. Your problem is that you MAKE EVERYTHING seem like a problem, and it seeps into me, therefore, every time I complain about a so called problem to YOU and no one else, it's probably because YOU'RE the one who started it. So really, the problems you gave me, is what I'm giving you back.
and by the way, I hate admitting when my feelings get somewhat 'hurt.' Thats why, sometimes, I blow out on you and talking in my 'ungettable language,' which is another way of saying, I use a whole heap of examples and metaphors as a different way to tell you that my 'feelings' got hurt. You probably offended me in some way.
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